Tuesday, December 21, 2004
~ Making friends through the Net... A wise move? ~
10:43:00 pm
This was actually written on 21st December 2004, 1.10am in my notebook
Sometimes, I really wonder...
'
Making new friends through the Internet'...
Is it really a wise move?
Well, I don't deny the fact that I've actually made friends with some great people with the help of a mouse click... People who are sincere and honest in making friends with you... In fact, I've known people whom actually met their soulmate or significant other through the Internet... Yes, the Internet is a great way for you to meet new people, learn new languages and other cultures, and also to keep in touch with your old and current friends... But how many percent do you think who are really, really sincere in being your friend? 50? 10? Or even lesser? I don't know, seriously...
I don't blame the people who created the Internet... I blame the people who are using it... Yes, the USERS... Even me... Yes, me... No, I haven't done anything wrong but sometimes, I feel that I'm not sincere too... But don't point your fingers at me too soon... The other party whom you're talking to can be very creepy... Creepy as in he/she can turn you off in an instant... You know, the exchanging of hp numbers and stuffs when you've actually known each other for about a few seconds... So there you go... People who wants to be your friend but practically, you don't wish to... So, is the sincerity still there? You tell me...
But that's not the worse... The worse can be where both parties choose to meet in reality and when they meet, that's the first and the last they see and maybe, even hear of each other... Yes, I've done it before... No denial there... I'm very tired of doing these sort of things so the best is not to meet up at all... But curiousity kills the cat doesn't it? You always wonder how he/she looks like but you end up hurting the other party... *Sigh*... And who says looks doesn't play a role??
But to look on the bright side, it's not all that bad... You'll get to widen your circle of friendship... And for my case, I get to make friends with the people who seems
so near yet so far from me... *Haha*... Whom I meant are the people in my lecture group... You are not aware of their presence in reality but when you go online, you're like "
You're from my lecture group?" and stuffs... And you start making friends... So, not everything is as bad as they seems...
What can you say? Everything has its pros and cons...
Last words:
The reason I'm writing this was becuz of someone whom I've just known recently... Made me spend money on my hp bill... But in the end, I get ignored... I don't know lah... Well, you know
karma... '
What goes around, comes around'... I
believe definitely know that I've been like that, that's why it's happening to me now...
My emotion: It's definitely not a good feeling...
written, NaDiaH eRNiYaNTi
